Flashy get-ups and being a trying hard conceited show off will neither make a lasting definition of who you really are, nor will it make you more of a person you fashioned to be.
Just as I thought of it, life will always be a roller-coaster ride, a so called bitter-sweet journey. No matter what spectrum you are looking at, it will always be what it is.
I'd rather be a nobody than become a somebody I don't deserve to be. I'm bound to make my own fate and fame the way I'm capable of taking.
My Rule of Thumb: You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you... a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals... look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.